
Listening Well: It Is Not About Your Ears
Have you ever been talking to someone who might seem to be listening—and is really just formulating how they want to respond? Maybe they jump in to argue, advise, “solve” a problem you never presented, or guide the conversation toward their own agenda. Most of us have experienced this. Many of us have “listened” in this way. We are often conditioned to feel valuable when we help or fix. Actually, true listening requires something




